Where Every Stitch Tells a Story—Welcome to the Wondering.Waves Blog

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Where Every Stitch Tells a Story—Welcome to the Wondering.Waves Blog *

Here, you’ll find heartfelt stories of military life, creative crochet adventures, food and travel discoveries, and the everyday magic of community connection. Whether you’re a fellow military spouse, a maker, or just looking for inspiration, there’s a place for you in our story circle. Grab a cup of something cozy and explore with us!

– Latosha (& Matthew, your occasional foodie guide!)

Live for the Moment: A Military Spouse’s Restart and Mindful Walk (Day 1)

Live for the Moment: A Military Spouse’s Restart and Mindful Walk (Day 1)

After months of feeling stuck in a routine, I finally pressed pause and listened to the quiet call for change. Today, I stepped out into the desert’s gentle autumn light, determined to notice the world around me—and within me—like it was all brand new. Rearranging my home and moving my creative space into the heart of the house, I found not just better light, but a renewed sense of possibility. This is the story of a military spouse’s mindful restart—one step, one breath, and one cozy moment at a time.

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Ending the Day with Peace: Setting Intentions for Gentle Accomplishment

Ending the Day with Peace: Setting Intentions for Gentle Accomplishment

After a long season of feeling lost, I’m learning to honor gentle routines—like a morning skincare ritual, a cup of coffee in the desert light, and small wins that help me feel more like myself. Each day, I set intentions for peaceful accomplishment, reminding myself that even the smallest acts of self-care and kindness are worth celebrating. This is my journey to finding presence, hope, and enoughness, one mindful morning at a time.

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The Gentle Art of Starting Over: Self-Care Rituals for Every New Duty Station

The Gentle Art of Starting Over: Self-Care Rituals for Every New Duty Station

Starting over at a new duty station isn’t just about unpacking boxes—it’s about creating comfort and connection, one small ritual at a time. From the first visit to the local library to the moment I finally make the bed, these gentle routines help me turn any place into a true home. Join me as I share the cozy, creative ways I embrace new beginnings and find belonging wherever military life takes us.

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Threading Comfort on a Tuesday: A Diary from the Wondering.Waves Studio

Threading Comfort on a Tuesday: A Diary from the Wondering.Waves Studio

On this Tuesday, I found comfort in the simple rituals of creativity—finishing a special Army Doll, connecting with my community, and learning to honor rest when plans change. From cozy moments with coffee and yarn to new creative challenges, I’m sharing the real ups and downs of life as a military spouse and maker. Join me for a behind-the-scenes look at how I find peace, connection, and inspiration—no matter where the week takes me.

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Unlocking Opportunity: Exploring the Military Spouse Employment Partnership (MSEP)
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Unlocking Opportunity: Exploring the Military Spouse Employment Partnership (MSEP)

Starting over after every move can feel overwhelming for military spouses—especially when it comes to finding meaningful work. This week, I’m diving into the Military Spouse Employment Partnership (MSEP): what it is, why it matters, and what real spouses are saying about it online. Whether you’re actively job hunting or just curious about new opportunities, join me as we explore this resource and share honest reflections on building a career that moves with you.

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Threads of Community: A Cozy Conversation with Mimi’s World

Threads of Community: A Cozy Conversation with Mimi’s World

When I first started going live on TikTok, I never imagined that one of my earliest supporters would become the very first creator featured in the Wondering.Waves interview series. In this cozy, heartfelt conversation, Mimi’s World shares her journey from childhood crochet projects to building a vibrant, supportive community online. Join us as we talk creativity, courage, and the magic of showing up as your authentic self—one stitch at a time.

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Productivity with Heart: How I Manage My Energy as a Neurodivergent Creator

Productivity with Heart: How I Manage My Energy as a Neurodivergent Creator

Productivity isn’t about running at full speed all the time—it’s about listening to your body, honoring your season, and building a life that works with you, not against you. As a neurodivergent military spouse and creator, I’ve learned to embrace rest, flexible routines, and systems that support my energy (like timers, breaks, and Notion). Whether I’m batch-creating on my best days or giving myself grace on the tough ones, I know my dreams will wait for me. If you’re navigating similar ups and downs, know this: you’re not alone, and it’s okay to take breaks.

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I May Not Be Everyone’s Cup of Tea, But It’s Better to Be Me

I May Not Be Everyone’s Cup of Tea, But It’s Better to Be Me

Military life isn’t always about adventure and connection—sometimes, it’s about feeling left out or “too different” to fit in. Today I’m sharing a real, vulnerable moment about mean girl energy, loneliness, and why I’d rather be my authentic self—even if I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. If you’ve ever felt on the outside looking in, this story is for you.

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Crafting Through Chaos: Finding Peace in Busy Military Life

Crafting Through Chaos: Finding Peace in Busy Military Life

In the ever-changing world of military life, finding moments of peace can feel impossible. Discover how mindful crafting—especially crochet—offers military spouses a way to create calm, build resilience, and connect with community, one stitch at a time.

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