
Where Every Stitch Tells a Story—Welcome to the Wondering.Waves Blog
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Where Every Stitch Tells a Story—Welcome to the Wondering.Waves Blog *
Here, you’ll find heartfelt stories of military life, creative crochet adventures, food and travel discoveries, and the everyday magic of community connection. Whether you’re a fellow military spouse, a maker, or just looking for inspiration, there’s a place for you in our story circle. Grab a cup of something cozy and explore with us!
– Latosha (& Matthew, your occasional foodie guide!)

Productivity with Heart: How I Manage My Energy as a Neurodivergent Creator
Productivity isn’t about running at full speed all the time—it’s about listening to your body, honoring your season, and building a life that works with you, not against you. As a neurodivergent military spouse and creator, I’ve learned to embrace rest, flexible routines, and systems that support my energy (like timers, breaks, and Notion). Whether I’m batch-creating on my best days or giving myself grace on the tough ones, I know my dreams will wait for me. If you’re navigating similar ups and downs, know this: you’re not alone, and it’s okay to take breaks.

I May Not Be Everyone’s Cup of Tea, But It’s Better to Be Me
Military life isn’t always about adventure and connection—sometimes, it’s about feeling left out or “too different” to fit in. Today I’m sharing a real, vulnerable moment about mean girl energy, loneliness, and why I’d rather be my authentic self—even if I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. If you’ve ever felt on the outside looking in, this story is for you.